Sorry Business

When someone passes, Sorry Business involves the whole community — not just the immediate family. There are cultural obligations around who can be told, how the name is used, who attends ceremonies, and how long mourning lasts. These vary between nations and communities.

In many Aboriginal communities, the name and image of someone who has died should not be used. This is a deep cultural protocol, not a preference. If you are a service provider or friend supporting a family in Sorry Business, ask respectfully about naming and image protocols.

In some communities, the family may need to leave the house where the person died — temporarily or permanently. This can create urgent housing needs. Housing and funeral costs during Sorry Business can be especially difficult in remote communities.

13YARN (13 92 76) is a crisis line answered by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Lifeline-trained counsellors. It is free, confidential, and available 24/7.

• Ask, don't assume. Practices vary between nations and families.
• Respect name and image avoidance protocols.
• Understand that Sorry Business may require extended leave from work or school.
• Funerals may happen days or weeks after the death, depending on community.
• Offer practical help — food, transport, phone calls — rather than advice.